What’s your responsibility?Do you feel that all on your shoulder? Have you ever felt it?Let me calm your mind…Is this something common among eldest child of the family while youngers benefits through???

Hello to all,

We all know we have many responsibilities… No one can think that they are free of them…You may have responsibilities connected with your family, nature,working place and so on…So everyone is a part of it…Let’s see how you have to deal with family responsibilities being youngers in a family…

Family

This is the smallest unit of a society…When it comes to a family, you expand it by joining more families to yours…That’s how a happy background can be created… Because being human no one like to be isolated… And there you get a chance to share your responsibilities with many others who are like you…

Siblings,who knows each other,not superficially but from heart who feel each others,who feel what others do to uplift a family… Small one a good example she has not let her elder sister do take water alone but has become a helping hand carrying a small bucket of water…Be a real sister or a brother without living in a fantasy land…
– Jayani Dissanayake –

Why do you think that you have all packed up???Never think of such…If you all are part of a family you are one out of it,so with all your responsibilities,you have to fill it out,specially your parents who need to walk with you in their old age…Then there won’t be any link moved away from family…But if any of you in family feel that you are out of any responsibility as you are young,old,no ability to fulfill,then it is where,you have become a one out of your family…

No one can escape it even though you are a little kid you have to learn it since childhood without being a dependent on your parents or either elder siblings… If you understand that you must fulfill yours too as your elder siblings do to your family one day, then there won’t be a one elder sister/brother who hold all alone finally….You have to think being selfless,as your elders too need to build up a small family one day as they expected to be while fulfilling their responsibilities…

One of the major concern,you have to pay much attention in this society since past to now a days is that elder sisters and brothers spend their whole life on their youngers while some however manage to build up theirs too taking that whole lot of responsibilities with them…But do youngers remember that they have responsibilities too to fill later on when they adjust their lives?I don’t think they do,because they just enjoyed what they got before,but finally when their parents and elders need them,they are nowhere near…It’s something even my mom faced being the eldest child of the family who had to fulfill her responsibilities even sacrificing her education to make young ones up in their lives and I have a humble proud on her as she managed to build a small family of her own as she expected even by fulfilling her responsibilities…So dear young ones in the families never be the people who are filled with evilness… Not all but few do think of themselves only,welcoming that selfishness …

Many elder siblings getting older with age and time,where no young ones feel a bit of that responsibilities until they build up a family of their own separately and get those on to their shoulders being parents to their own children… This is not a situation similar everywhere,but somewhere…So there’s definitely something to think here…Take your time my dear readers,don’t make your parents to be somewhere in road or your elder siblings to face such tensed situations in their lives…This is not something just important for people who are poor or rich…No category for this…All are in a same situation that has to be understood… Also,it can be you who work more time but you can spend just an hour with family to talk how they are doing…

Not only something youngers must understood but also parents,they also have to think a bit on their elder children not only they have to pay that attention on young ones,being parents too they have that responsibilities to be fulfilled on behalf of their all children…Making elder child centered when he/she entered to a job would definitely direct young ones to stay eat and sleep with what their elders earn without any idea of how they earn…So these responsibilities would disappear after all,not only because of youngers but also parents who see that elder one must take the responsibility of younger one;

Why so typical? Why don’t you feel that elder one too a child who can’t just packed up all the responsibilities of a family to him/her shoulder…Not all are same,but there will be parents like in Village by the sea novel…Where father drinks and spend all they have without feeding his children,letting Lila and Hari to carry their family…Family is a set of your own people,so when you do good it is for you all who can enjoy that benefits together… So,don’t wait,definitely all parents in this world love their children, do make sure you don’t do any favour…I know it’s not happening,no parents do such…

So,this is also not a post that talks of responsibilities that is done by elder siblings in a family but a post that wanna remind and ring that bell to awake youngers who have neglected their responsibilities being youngers…Also to remind elder siblings not to think that the responsibilities are packed up on you, Family Responsibilities are for all not to a certain one to do it…But when it be the families with only child most of them knows that they are the ones who need to perform those and also they learn since their baby age that they are the ones who are for their parents and learn how to carry those responsibilities,because they are the eldest and youngest in their families… So they know well what are these responsibilities are…Here too you can find the ones who do it and don’t…

So,my dear ones, never let your family down with what you do instead make it the most happy place where you can relax on…😊😊

See how Happy they are…When you remember you’re part of it,not even a small one stays aside while watching a movie instead they help…
– Jayani Dissanayake –

I know people are different and with that differences the world runs on but remember to make it a better one…

Read Village by the sea of the greatest writer Anita Desai… She has revealed how Lila,the eldest child of the family being a girl try to overcome the hardships her family faces where as Hari being the younger brother who make his family come out of poverty by helping his elder sister….

A story of survival set in a small fishing villlage near Bombay. Lila and Hari, aged 13 and 12, struggle to keep the family, including two young sisters, going when their mother is ill and their father usually the worse for drink. When Hari goes to Bombay to find work, Lila seems to be responsible for everything. Although the book paints a picture of extreme poverty, it demonstrates the strength of the family even in the most extreme circumstances and offers a powerful picture of how the siblings gather to fulfill each one’s responsibilities with their small hands…

Anita Desai – The Village by the Sea

Get the pdf downloaded from above link…

17 Comments Add yours

  1. Anonymous says:

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    Liked by 1 person

    1. jiayali says:

      That’s great to hear,thanks a lot…😊😊

      Liked by 1 person

  2. Anonymous says:

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    Liked by 1 person

    1. jiayali says:

      Wow,Thanks a lot…😍😍

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  3. Anonymous says:

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    1. jiayali says:

      Haha,thumbs up and thanks…πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  4. Anonymous says:

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    1. jiayali says:

      Yeah definitely that’s what I wanna bring out…Thanks…

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  5. Anonymous says:

    Love this…It reminds the things we have to adjust…A good writer always know to write the best…

    Liked by 1 person

    1. jiayali says:

      I’m blushed, thanks alot…

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  6. Anonymous says:

    Family, yeah true all have to take part…C’est la vie…Your logo defines your site bravo…Γ©cris plus, aime-les…

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    1. jiayali says:

      Oui,Merci beaucoup…😊😊

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  7. Anonymous says:

    Cool,are you a writer?Any e-books published by you???Would love to go through if so😍😍reply if possible… Many Thanks…

    Liked by 1 person

    1. jiayali says:

      Well,no e-books published,but will do definitely… Thanks…

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    1. jiayali says:

      Hey dear edochie,I’m so happy to hear that you love it…Thanks a lot for taking time to share what you felt…😊😊

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  8. jiayali says:

    Dear Alison thanks for the honest comments you shared with me…So courageous they are for me…😊😊

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